Would You Rather Questions for Couples: A Fun Game to Spice Up Your Relationship
Are you ready to add some fun and excitement to your relationship? Dive into a world of exploration with this collection of Would You Rather Questions for Couples.
Discover new insights, spark meaningful conversations, and create unforgettable moments together!
In a recent blog post, I discussed the importance of dating your spouse. Why? Because we live in a world of chaos, kiddos, and neverending responsibilities. Our daily lives are overwhelming—full of the hustle of work deadlines, school pickups, and household chores.
But amidst the chaos, one aspect of our lives often gets overlooked… our relationships. As a busy, working mom, it’s essential to recognize that nurturing our relationships and prioritizing our marriage is as vital to our health and well-being as eating healthy foods and staying active.
If you need quick and low-key date night ideas, I encourage you to read this post. If you don’t have a date night on the calendar and are looking for a quick way to connect with your spouse, even for just a few minutes, I challenge you to pull out this list of questions.
Asking Would You Rather questions is one of my favorite things to do with my husband. Whether we are spending a night at home, on a date night out, or a weekend away, we are always surprised that after almost twenty years of marriage, we still find surprise and curiosity in each other’s responses.
This Would You Rather question game has given us such intimate moments. It allows us time to connect, laugh, and celebrate our relationship.
I hope you’ll use this list of questions the next time you have a few minutes alone with your hubby. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how much joy you’ll get from this fun, light-hearted game.
Creating deep connections and relationships is essential to overall health and wellness. While prioritizing wellness involves focusing on workout regimens and food choices, research shows that meaningful relationships are as crucial, if not more important, than the food on your plate.
I encourage you to prioritize your marriage, intimacy, and connection in a way that fulfills you and brings you joy. It isn’t always easy and can require work, but I promise you’ll be overwhelmed by the happiness it brings you.
This list contains over 100 questions to help you get to know yourself and your spouse. Let this list inspire you to create a few of your own questions.
The questions are divided into categories, starting with fun and light-hearted questions and becoming more intimate as you work through the list.
The categories are personality and preferences, fun and play, social and lifestyle, dreams and goals, life milestones, love languages, personal growth, intimacy, and vulnerability.
I even added a bonus set of questions about the bedroom (wink, wink)!
Let’s dive in!
Personality & Preferences – Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather have a partner who is always spontaneous and adventurous or reliable and predictable?
- Would you rather have your partner’s sense of humor or their intelligence?
- Would you rather spend a day exploring the city or hiking in nature?
- Would you rather have a partner who is outgoing and social or quiet and reflective?
- Would you rather have your partner’s cooking skills or their ability to fix things around the house?
- Would you rather have a partner who loves to travel and explore new places or one who prefers cozy nights at home?
- Would you rather share all your interests and hobbies with your partner or have some separate activities you enjoy on your own?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a great listener and gives excellent advice or one who always knows how to make you laugh?
- Would you rather have a highly organized and neat partner or one who is more laid-back and easygoing?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always up for trying new foods or one who prefers to stick to familiar favorites?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a morning person and loves early starts or one who enjoys sleeping in and staying up late?
12. Would you rather have a partner who is spontaneous with gifts and surprises or one who plans thoughtful gestures in advance?
13. Would you rather have a partner who is always up for a deep conversation about life and philosophy or one who prefers light-hearted banter and jokes?
Would You Rather Questions for Couples – Fun & Play
- Would you rather have a karaoke night or an outdoor adventure with your partner?
- Would you rather go on a camping trip in the mountains or on a beach vacation?
- Would you rather spend a day at an amusement park riding roller coasters or exploring a zoo?
- Would you rather have a spontaneous dance party in the living room or a cozy movie night?
- Would you rather have a partner who prefers making things or one who prefers to buy them?
- Would you rather spend a weekend binge-watching your favorite TV shows together or exploring a new hobby as a couple?
- Would you rather have a partner who surprises you with spontaneous weekend getaways or one who plans elaborate date nights at home?
- Would you rather have a partner who plans group date nights or one who plans romantic surprises?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a skilled chef and cooks gourmet meals at home or one who takes you on culinary adventures to try new restaurants?
- Would you rather have a partner who is an excellent storyteller and keeps you entertained for hours or one who always knows the best jokes?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a master at DIY projects and home improvements or one who is a wizard at planning themed parties and events?
- Would you rather spend a day exploring a new city together or revisiting your favorite childhood hangouts?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a trivia whiz and dominates game nights or one who is a master at solving puzzles and riddles?
Social & Lifestyle Questions
- Would you rather attend a fancy gala or casual backyard barbecue with your partner?
- Would you rather spend a day volunteering together for a charitable cause or having a romantic picnic in the park?
- Would you rather have a partner who enjoys hosting dinner parties and social gatherings or one who prefers intimate dinners for two?
- Would you rather have a partner who loves to explore new restaurants and cuisines or one who enjoys cooking homemade meals together?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a social butterfly and enjoys attending parties and events or one who prefers quiet nights at home with just the two of you?
- Would you rather have a partner who is passionate about fitness and enjoys working out together or one who prefers relaxing activities like yoga and meditation?
- Would you rather have a partner who encourages you to pursue your passions and hobbies or one who shares your interests and dreams?
- Would you rather have a partner who enjoys traveling and exploring new cultures or one who prefers to stay close to home and create a cozy nest together?
- Would you rather have a partner who is spontaneous and loves surprises or one who values stability and security in your relationship?
Goals & Dreams – Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather achieve your biggest dreams together as a couple or support each other in pursuing individual aspirations?
- Would you rather have a partner who is ambitious and driven or one who prioritizes work-life balance and relaxation?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always striving for personal growth and self-improvement or one who is content with where they are in life?
- Would you rather have a partner who dreams of traveling the world and living a nomadic lifestyle or one who dreams of settling down on a homestead?
- Would you rather have a partner focused on building a successful career or one who values creating meaningful experiences and memories together?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always setting new goals and challenges for themselves or one who prefers to live in the moment and enjoy life as it comes?
- Would you rather have a partner who encourages you to take risks and pursue your passions or one who values stability and security above all else?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a visionary and dreams big or one who is practical and grounded in reality?
- Would you rather have a partner who is constantly seeking new adventures and experiences or one who prefers routine and stability?
- Would you rather have a partner who is willing to make sacrifices to achieve their dreams or one who prioritizes the happiness and well-being of the relationship above all else?
- Would you rather have a partner who constantly challenges you to step out of your comfort zone or one who provides unwavering support and encouragement?
- Would you rather have a partner who is constantly evolving and reinventing themselves or one who stays true to their core values and beliefs?
- Would you rather have a partner who is passionate about making a difference in the world or one who focuses on creating a happy and fulfilling life for themselves and their loved ones?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always seeking new opportunities for personal and professional growth or one who is content with where they are in life?
- Would you rather have a partner who is a dreamer and idealist or one who is practical and realistic about the future?
- Would you rather have a partner who always pushes you to be the best version of yourself or accepts you exactly as you are?
Life’s Milestones Questions
- Would you rather celebrate your anniversary with a romantic getaway or a cozy night at home?
- Would you rather have a big, extravagant wedding or a small, intimate ceremony with just close family and friends?
- Would you rather have a partner who remembers all your important dates and anniversaries or one who surprises you with unexpected gestures of love?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always planning fun surprises and adventures or one who prefers quiet, intimate moments together?
- Would you rather spend your retirement traveling the world, exploring new places, or enjoying life’s simple pleasures at home with your partner?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always planning for the future and setting long-term goals or one who lives in the present and enjoys each moment?
- Would you rather focus on achieving tangible milestones, such as buying a house or advancing your career, or prioritize intangible milestones, such as personal growth and emotional connection within your relationship?
- Would you rather celebrate traditional milestones like marriage and children or prioritize unconventional milestones that align with your unique values and aspirations?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always there to celebrate your successes and achievements or one who helps you navigate through life’s challenges and setbacks?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always planning exciting adventures and experiences or one who provides a sense of stability and security in your relationship?
- Would you rather have a partner who always surprises you with thoughtful gestures and gifts or knows exactly what you need and how to support you?
- Would you rather have a partner who actively seeks opportunities for personal growth and evolution or one who finds joy and satisfaction in embracing the present moment and the journey they’re on?
- Would you rather have a partner who always strives for success and achievement or one who values happiness and fulfillment above all else?
- Would you rather have a partner who constantly challenges you to step out of your comfort zone or one who provides unwavering support and encouragement?
- Would you rather have a partner who is constantly evolving and reinventing themselves or one who stays true to their core values and beliefs?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always seeking new adventures and experiences or one who prefers routine and stability?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always setting new goals and challenges for themselves or one who prefers to live in the moment and enjoy life as it comes?
- Would you rather have a partner who is focused on building a successful career or one who prioritizes staying at home with the family?
- Would you rather have a partner who is passionate about making a difference in the world or one who focuses on creating a happy and fulfilling life for themselves and their loved ones?
Would You Rather Questions for Couples – Love Language
- Would you rather receive love through words of affirmation or acts of service from your partner?
- Would you rather have a partner who surprises you with thoughtful gifts or one who spends quality time with you?
- Would you rather express love through physical touch or spending quality time with your partner?
- Would you rather have a partner who expresses love through acts of kindness or one who showers you with compliments?
- Would you rather receive love through thoughtful gestures and surprises or through quality time spent together?
- Would you rather have a partner who shows love through physical affection or one who expresses love through thoughtful acts of service?
- Would you rather have a partner who values quality time together or one who appreciates receiving gifts as tokens of love?
- Would you rather receive love through physical touch or through words of affirmation and encouragement?
- Would you rather have a partner who shows love through acts of service or one who values physical affection and cuddling?
- Would you rather express love through acts of service or through giving thoughtful gifts to your partner?
Personal Growth Questions for Couples
- Would you rather pursue personal growth and self-improvement together as a couple or support each other in pursuing individual goals and aspirations?
- Would you rather have a partner who embraces life’s uncertainties and thrives on spontaneity and adventure or one who finds fulfillment in routine and stability and cherishes the comfort of the familiar?
- Would you rather have a partner who constantly challenges societal norms and seeks unconventional paths for personal growth or one who embraces tradition and finds contentment in the simplicity of everyday life?
- Would you rather have a partner who is constantly evolving and reinventing themselves or one who stays true to their core values and beliefs?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always exploring new perspectives and adapting to change or one who remains steadfast in their convictions, offering stability and consistency in your relationship?
- Would you rather have a partner who inspires you to grow and evolve or one who embraces and loves every aspect of who you are without any need for change or improvement?
- Would you rather have a partner who challenges you to think critically and question your beliefs or one who shares your values and worldview?
- Would you rather have a partner who inspires you to dream big and set ambitious goals or one who helps you stay grounded and focused on what’s important?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always seeking new experiences and adventures or one who values stability and routine in your relationship?
- Would you rather have a partner who encourages you to take risks and embrace uncertainty or one who prefers a more cautious and calculated approach to life?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always striving for self-improvement or one who is content and values simplicity and authenticity?
Intimacy & Vulnerability Questions for Couples
- Would you rather share your deepest fears and insecurities with your partner or hide them to avoid vulnerability?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always open and honest about their emotions or one who struggles to express their feelings?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always there to provide support or one who connects with you on a deep, emotional level?
- Would you rather have a partner who is willing to listen and understand your perspective or one who always wants to fix problems immediately?
- Would you rather have a partner who is comfortable discussing difficult topics or one who avoids confrontation and conflict?
- Would you rather have a partner who is willing to be vulnerable and share their innermost thoughts and feelings or one who keeps their emotions guarded?
- Would you prefer a partner who shows affection and attentiveness in public settings or one who is more reserved and composed when in public?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always seeking to deepen your emotional connection or one who is content with surface-level interactions?
- Would you rather have a partner who is comfortable expressing physical affection or one who doesn’t prefer intimacy and touch?
- Would you rather have a partner who is willing to explore new experiences and fantasies with you or one who prefers to stick to familiar routines and behaviors?
In the Bedroom Bonus Questions for Couples
- Would you rather have a partner who is adventurous and willing to try new things in the bedroom or one who prefers to stick to familiar routines?
- Would you rather have a partner who initiates intimacy and romance or one who appreciates when you take the lead?
- Would you rather have a partner who enjoys spontaneity or one who prefers to plan romantic evenings in advance?
- Would you rather explore new fantasies and role-play scenarios with your partner or focus on deepening your emotional connection during intimate moments?
- Would you rather have a partner who values quality over quantity when it comes to intimacy or one who prioritizes frequency and spontaneity?
- Would you rather have a partner who is vocal and expressive about their desires in the bedroom or one who appreciates subtle cues and gestures?
- Would you rather have a partner who is open to using intimate toys and accessories or one who prefers to keep things simple and natural?
- Would you rather have a partner who enjoys exploring different positions and techniques or one who is satisfied with what works best for both of you?
- Would you rather have a partner who is always attentive to your needs and desires in the bedroom or one who encourages you to take the lead and express yourself?
- Would you rather have a partner who enjoys experimenting with new sensations or one who prefers to stick to familiar routines and techniques?
